- coaxing, ingratiatory - pleasingly persuasive or intended to persuade; "a coaxing and obsequious voice"; "her manner is quiet and ingratiatory and a little too agreeable"
Antonym: dissuasive (indirect, via persuasive)
- ingratiating, ingratiatory - calculated to please or gain favor; "a smooth ingratiating manner"
Antonym: unflattering (indirect, via flattering)